We'll get to the Ramban in a minute. First, the Magen Avraham.
The Magen Avraham (658 sk 12 quoting the Mateh Moshe, and in 671 sk 1 as his own opinion,) says that it is better that a person forego his Hiddur Mitzva and do the mitzva simply but adequately and thereby enable others to do the mitzva too. For example, if Reuven has the means to fulfill a Mitzva with Hiddur, with glory and beauty, but if he were to take some of the money he set aside for the mitzvah and send it to another town that would otherwise not be able to fulfill the mitzvah at all, he would still be able to fulfill the mitzvah adequately, but without hiddur, then מוטב, it is better that he choose the second option. It is clear from the Magen Avraham in 658 that this chiddush is not limited to helping a tzibbur, and the same is true for helping another individual to do his mitzva. This is also mentioned by the Shaarei Teshuva in 671 sk 12. (The Ben Ish Chai in his Tshuvos Torah Lishma argues and holds that this is only true when you are being mezakeh a community, for מצוה דרבים, but you can not give up hiddur for anything less than a mitzva of another individual. Othersמחנה חיים 29whittle the Magen Avraham's rule down to a toothpick because they basically don't agree with him.) The cases where the Magen Avraham tells us this rule are as follows:
In 658 the case is that you have enough oil to light the Chanuka menora with hiddur, increasing the number every night, but there is someone who can't afford oil, or has no access to candles, then you should- not must, should- split the oil with him, and you will each light just one candle every night.
In 671 the case is that he has two hundred dollars. Option One: He can buy a splendid esrog, but his friend, who lives many miles away, will have no esrog at all. Option Two: He can spend one hundred for an adequate esrog for himself and give the other hundred to his friend to buy an esrog. The Magen Avraham says he should choose Option Two.
If the Magen Avraham would only have quoted the Mateh Moshe in the case of Chanuka, I would say it's a rule in Pirsum Haneis, publicizing the miracle of Chanuka, so paying for someone else's candle is your way of doing Pirsum, through the other person. But he extrapolates from Chanuka to Esrog, so the Magen Avraham takes it to be a rule of general application.
Here are the questions of the day. (If you're impatient, the important connection to this parsha is one simple thought. The Ramban, as we will note below, presents a philosophical analysis which, he says, has application in practical halacha (in the rule of עשה דוחה לא תעשה.) He says that the essence of positive commandments is to show love of G-d: I do what He wants done because I love Him. According to the Ramban, the primary interest is to see to it that His will is done, and it should make no difference whether I myself do it or I enable someone else to do it. The connection to the Magen Avraham now becomes obvious. If, on the other hand, mitzvos are primarily a matter of personal obligation, then it would be hard to see why I should give up the opportunity to do my duty optimally just so that someone else should fulfill his basic obligation.)
1. Does the Magen Avraham depend on whether hiddur is de'oraysa or derabannan? (Also here and here.) Probably not, but I am not sure.
2. Does the Magen Avraham depend on whether hiddur is part of the mitzva or a separate mitzva? It seems to me that if hiddur is a separate mitzva, then it is no different than any other mitzva kiyumis, and I highly doubt that the Magen Avraham would say that given a choice between fulfilling your own mitzva kiyumis or funding someone else's mitzva chiyuvis, that is is good to fund the other guy. Somehow, I think that he's only talking about hiddur. And so the Magen Avraham has to hold that Hiddur is part of the mitzva, not a separate mitzva.
(As I mentioned above, the Ben Ish Chai in his Teshuvos Torah Lishmah is not convinced by the Magen Avraham. He holds that one should not give up his mitzva of hiddur to enable someone else to do his.
מיהו הלכה זו שחדש המג״א ז״ל בהלכות חנוכה הנז׳ עדיין לא פסיקא לי די״ל מאחר דאין כאן מצוה דרבים ורק עבד כן בשביל יחיד אין לו לעזוב הדור מצותו בשביל יחיד ומצוה דדיה קדים.
My feeling is that he is assuming that Hiddur is a separate mitzva, and given that assumption he is right to disagree with the Magen Avraham.)3. Since the achronim talk about the din of Arvus, that not only do we have a din Arvus on each other, but it's even a din of Areiv Kablan, what's the havah amina not like the Magen Avraham? And even without that, what about the din of אע"פ שיצא מוציא which is based on the rule that the regular din of ערבות makes it that I'm still a מחוייב בדבר as long as the other person wasn't yotzei yet? So of course I can't patchke with hiddur when, from the perspective of Arvus, I haven't yet been yotzei the basic mitzva!
4. Does this only apply where the other mitzva is the same? Or is it true in general, for example, where I could buy a super esrog, but it would be better to buy a regular esrog and give the extra money to someone who can then buy a tallis or tefillin? The Ksav Sofer understands the Magen Avraham as being based on the din of arvus, so even though you are giving up on your hiddur, you gain a share in your friend's mitzva. But maybe that only applies where the two mitzvos are the same, but you have no right to take money from your mitzva A and give it away for someone elses mitzva B, because of the din of עוסק במצוה פטור מן המצוה, osek b'mitzva, that you should do the current mitzva as well as you can and not diminish it by doing other mitzvos at the same time? Especially according to the Ritva (Sukka 25a) that an osek is not just pattur, but even assur to do the other mitzvah and the Ran (Sukkah 11a) that osek is pattur even if there's no tircha .
5. According to the Ramban, since mitzvos Asei are based on ahava, is the Magen Avraham not indisputable? In other words, if it was yir'ah, then all I care is to protect myself. If it's ahava, what difference does it make if I do the mitzva or someone else does the mitzva- if my motive is to do Hashem's will because I love Him, all that should matter is whether Hashem is pleased, not whether I get a bigger mitzva reward. Or am I making a mistake by conflating the Ramban and Shimon Hatzadik in Pirkei Avos 1:3,
אנטיגנוס איש סוכו קיבל משמעון הצדיק. הוא היה אומר, אל תהיו כעבדים המשמשין את הרב, על מנת לקבל פרס, אלא הוו כעבדים המשמשין את הרב, על מנת שלא לקבל פרס; ויהי מורא שמים עליכם
ובמדרשו של רבי נחוניא בן הקנה (ספר הבהיר אות קפב) הזכירו עוד סוד גדול בזכור ושמור, ועל הכלל תהיה הזכירה ביום והשמירה בלילה, וזהו מאמר החכמים (ב''ק לב:) שאומרים בערב שבת באי כלה באי כלה, באו ונצא לקראת שבת מלכה כלה, ויקראו לברכת היום קדושא רבא (פסחים קו.) שהוא הקדוש הגדול, ותבין זה. ואמת הוא ג''כ כי מדת זכור רמזו במצות עשה, והוא היוצא ממדת האהבה והוא למדת הרחמים, כי העושה מצות אדוניו אהוב לו ואדוניו מרחם עליו, ומדת שמור במצות לא תעשה, והוא למדת הדין ויוצא ממדת היראה, כי הנשמר מעשות דבר הרע בעיני אדוניו ירא אותו, ולכן מצות עשה גדולה ממצות לא תעשה, כמו שהאהבה גדולה מהיראה, כי המקיים ועושה בגופו ובממונו רצון אדוניו הוא גדול מהנשמר מעשות הרע בעיניו, ולכך אמרו דאתי עשה ודחי לא תעשה, ומפני זה יהיה העונש במצות לא תעשה גדול ועושין בו דין כגון מלקות ומיתה, ואין עושין בו דין במצות עשה כלל אלא במורדין, כמו לולב וציצית איני עושה, סוכה איני עושה, שסנהדרין היו מכין אותו עד שיקבל עליו לעשות או עד שתצא נפשו:
6. Does the din of the Magen Avraham follow from the rule of חטא בשביל שיזכה חבירך, that Reuven may do a relatively minor sin to save his innocent friend from doing a major sin?
A. Is the Magen Avraham a simple restatement, an exact match to that rule? To illustrate:
חטא בשביל שיזכה חבירך means "Saving X from a major sin justifies (perhaps requires) that Y do a minor sin,"
and here, that would mean one of two things, either a or b:
a. "Enabling X to do a major mitzva justifies (perhaps requires) that Y relinquish a minor mitzva."
b. To state it more strongly, let's not talk about enabling X to do a mitzva; let's talk about bittul asei, the transgressive failure to do a mitzva:
"Saving X from failing to do a major mitzva justifies (perhaps requires) that Y relinquish a minor mitzva."
Or is there a difference between saving a person from sin and helping him fulfill a mitzva, because an Aveira, albeit oneis, is a פגם, a stain, whereas failure to do a mitzva is just a missed opportunity?
B. Is the Magen Avraham even stronger than that case, based on the Ramban that says that fulfilling mitzvos is a stronger show of our relationship with Hashem than avoiding aveiros? Or is the Ramban a poor example, because he's talking about the reward for fulfilling, not the punishment for not fulfilling.
Since I mention that sugya in Shabbos 4a, here's the relevant Tosfos, with the interesting parts in bold:
וכיאומרים לו לאדם חטא בשביל שיזכה חבירך. והא דאמר בבכל מערבין (עירובין לב: ושם) רבי סבר ניחא ליה לחבר דליעבד איסורא קלילא ולא ליעבד עם הארץ איסורא רבה התם כדי שלא יאכל ע"ה טבל על ידו דאמר לי' מלא לך כלכלה של תאנים מתאנתי אבל הכא שלא נעשה האיסור על ידו אין אומרים לו חטא אפי' איסור קל שלא יבא חבירו לידי איסור חמור ואומר ריב"א דאפי' למדביק עצמו אין לפשוט משם להתיר דהתם עדיין לא נעשה האיסור ומוטב שיעשה איסור קל ולא יעשה איסור חמור על ידו אבל הכא המעשה של איסור כבר נעשה וממילא יגמור לא יעשה אפי' איסור קל בידים והא דתנן בהשולח (גיטין דף מא: ושם) מי שחציו עבד וחציו בן חורין כופין את רבו ועושה אותו בן חורין ואע"ג דבהאי פירקא (דף לח:) א"ר יהודה כל המשחרר עבדו עובר בעשה דלעולם בהם תעבודו שאני פריה ורביה דמצוה רבה היא כדמשני התם בר"א שנכנס לבה"מ ולא מצא שם י' ושחרר את עבדו להשלימו לי' מצוה דרבים שאני ועוד י"ל דדוקא היכא דפשע קאמר וכי אומרים לו לאדם חטא כדי כו' ואתי שפיר הא דאמרי' בריש תמיד נשחט (פסחים דף נט. ושם) דאתי עשה דפסח שיש בו כרת ודחי עשה דהשלמה וקא עברי כהנים בעשה דהשלמה ומקריבין למחוסר כפורים כפרתו כדי שיביא פסחו וכן בפרק בתרא דעירובין (דף קג: ושם) כהן שנמצא בו יבלת חבירו חותכה לו לו בשיניו אע"ג דהוי שבות וגבי חציה שפחה וחציה בת חורין שנהגו בה מנהג הפקר וכפו את רבה בהשולח (גיטין דף לח:) משום שהיתה מחזרת וממציאה עצמה לזנות ודומי' לאנוסין והוי נמי כמצוה דרבים
I'm also taking into consideration the Magen Avraham 306 sk 29, who brings the shittos about sinning to save others from more serious sins, so we can't say that he doesn't pasken like the Gemara in Shabbos.7. Now that we've introduced a comparison to חטא בשביל שיזכה חבירך, I don't know why I should only look at the Ramban to support the Magen Avraham. After all, the Maharik says that Asei is docheh Lo Sa'aseh because the Asei is more important/chamur. See here in middle of the first column. If Asei is more chamur, then, as we said in the previous paragraph, the rule of חטא בשביל שיזכה חבירך should apply to mitzvos asei as well.
8. When Reb Shlomo Zalman said that Reuven has no obligation to spend a dime to prevent Shimon's need to be mechallel Shabbos for Piku'ach nefesh, (If Reuven would give Shimon his candle and sit in the dark, Shimon, who is sick, won't need to light a candle on Shabbos for piku'ach nefesh), why doesn't he bring the Magen Avraham (because I think that if the Magen Avraham holds it is mutav by kiyum mitzvos, where there's a din of עד חומש, wouldn't he hold it was obligatory where you can prevent dechiyas Shabbos, where it's כל ממונו ובלבד שלא יעבור על המצווה)?
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